What Is Unloving? It is an antichrist spirit sent to steal, kill and destroy - you. It is a spirit that makes you feel unclean and unworthy. You feel you don't measure up, you're no good. When you hear your voice talking it sounds like a piece of sandpaper on the side of an old piece of metal. When you look at yourself in the mirror, it says, "You are not the fairest of them all, you old ugly thing." When you look at someone else, you're sure they hate your guts. You think you can see it in their eyes. Yet, Psalm 139 says you are fearfully and wonderfully made. When you understand the Unloving, you will have the discernment to resist the devil, so he must flee from you.